Not every difficult and dangerous thing is suitable for training, but only that which is conducive to success in achieving the object of our effort.Epictetus
“Attach yourself to what is spiritually superior, regardless of what other people think or do.”
Stoic philosopher · 50 – 135
Epictetus was a Greek-born slave in Rome who won his freedom and became one of the most influential Stoic teachers. His Discourses and the handbook known as the Enchiridion teach that freedom lies in mastering one's own judgments and desires.
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